Do you guys ever still go out with a chick if she friend zones you beforehand?

Shaun D · 2022-06-16T00:24:57.328Z

This one was from a little earlier in the year, but I'm wondering if I should've just set up the date even though the frame seemed really bad? I haven't had a date since 2019 but I don't want to be too desperate. What do you all think? Thanks guys

jay dee

She basically asked you if your cool with being friendzoned and you agreed by saying you like meeting new people.

I love when girls ask me what I am looking for because I frame it sexual. I would say “i am looking to date/hook up/something casual and go from there/see where it goes/see how we match” etc you can play around with it.

I am not sure what her profile says she is looking for? And what are you looking for ?

Shaun D

Her profile didn't say, but I'm looking for hookups first until I get more experience. Whenever I try to communicate that (not in this example), I get ghosted almost every time. I think my profile pics might be too nice guy, so I'll have to work on that.

jay dee

It depends how you go about it. I've tried once whole month just saying “down to hookup n chill?” and you'll get some girls that will meet up. Thing is it would work very few because I am relying on my 5/10 looks to get me there lol

Then you have the other way to get there which is stimulate her mind first with sexual frame n flirty. Then she will ask you what you looking for. Then you can say something casual / or hookup then it will be relied upon your looks and stimulation.