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Context: Banged this chick 3 weeks ago, she was away travelling after that and saw her a week ago for the second time. I messaged her last Saturday to hang out, she couldn't and wrote me a long text saying she's busy catching up with school and work but said as soon as she's caught up with everything that we should plan something. So I said something like that's cool, when you're all caught up will hang out. Anyways, she hit me up first yesterday (I was always the one that hit her up first up until now, but never blew up her phone mostly texted to set up plans and keep the interaction warm while she was away). She said "Hey, how are you?' when I replied she didn't answer for like 7 hours and then after 2 messages back and forth she just "loved" my last message and didn't respond.
So I'm kinda wondering why she hit me up? I first assumed it was to say that she was done catching up on shit so that we could make plans but she didn't say anything about that. So yea, my 2 questions are did she just message me to keep the interaction "warm"? And when should I bring up making plans again if she doesn't tell me herself that she's done with catching up on work? Thanks PWF!
She hit you up to try to meet you again. All the catching up is done in person. She still wants you to take initiative. Don't expect a grand "I really want to meet you again so we can fuck again". Girls chase subtly. Just re-engage and make another meet happen. Don't overthink this since you already banged
Makes total sense Alex. I wasn't expecting some grand "I wanna see you again so we can fuck" text but I just didn't wanna come off as needy when she said she couldn't hang on Saturday so I thought i'd give it a few days before making another meet up happen. Thanks for the response.
