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I talked to this chick on an online forum and we had a nice going conversation, long story short i gave her my number and she said " i don't trust strangers online "
So i said: Ok, I understand that completely... It's hard too trust online today when there are alot of fakes around, On the other side you can make alot of great relathionships online... we talked for quite some time and i think you could give it a chance to trust me and get to me know me better beyond this app... i sent my number so you could know it's me and not nobody else ❤
How should i reengage from here and get back her interest?
Edit: Here's what she sayed...
Hey happy holidays and sorry for the delay..I thought what to respond to you and you're right, not everyone are fakes and there are alot of amazing guys like you that it sucks that i won't let in my life and give up the chance just beacuse we met here... I still feel like i can't send you a message on whatsapp, sorry
Yeah, I'm overly loquacious obviously but you def messed this up, way too wordy and qualifying. Instead,
"What exactly are your concerns"
"Well it is online dating lol. If you're a little inexperienced, I'd understand"
I think Alex uses the first one, I like the second one (just made it up)
Edit: you have 6 posts and no comments, try helping others as well as just asking for help, we'd all appreciate it
Yeah ok cool thanks for the response, she did say her concern was she doesn't " trust people online ", i just wonder how i could get further into that... Also it's not an online dating app, the dynamics are different there
Edit: Here's what she sayed...
Hey happy holidays and sorry for the delay..I thought what to respond to you and you're right, not everyone are fakes and there are alot of amazing guys like you that it sucks that i won't let in my life and give up the chance just beacuse we met here... I still feel like i can't send you a message on whatsapp, sorry
post the screenshot but its looking like you over invested / cared too much,
I would've just say "Stranger danger?"
This is a bit of a weird text from her. Maybe suggest a vid chat and say "You're right. I have to trust you as well. Just a phone number is not enough. Free for a video chat for 10 seconds?"
