Did I mess up here?

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Was trying to set up a soft close but didn’t get a response to the last message. She seems interested or am I missing something?

10 comments

sirdanny v

Hey man, the conversation starts off great. Then things starts getting a little gamey towards the middle with the creepy black guy & you having healing powers. At this point I would just do a takeaway, “If you’re too nervous, I’d understand” then steer the conversation towards a Soft Close/Hard Close/Logistics.

Ha Ba

Cheers for the advice. Ended up messaging and she replied straight away. (Less than a min) Did I go for the soft close to early? Or do I just need to Wait a few day then “if you’re too nervous, I’d understand”

sirdanny v

Hey man, good job I don’t think you went for the soft close too soon since she did ask you if you also drink & shes operating in your frame now. Just give it a few 24-48hrs then go with “if you’re too nervous, I’d understand” line.

Luis C

I feel like you should steer the conversation a little more sexual. Seems like a boring conversation something you would chat with an old aunt. Do a lot of “we framing”