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Hey. So, I matched with a chick on Tinder, and I was following an advice vid that was on the Playing With Fire channel. I asked if she was free tomorrow night and got no response. Did I go in too strong or no? Let me know.
Also, yes I’m new here. I wanna improve my text game, and I’ve had 2 successful dates in the past. 1 turned into a relationship that lasted a month.
Bro. Game is too platonic & boring. Also, close is suboptimal. This is how you want to handle it:
Conversation high point
You; you like wine
Her: ...
You: we should split a bottle soon
Her: yes
You: shoot me your number & we'll plan when
Then go to text. Also never ask if she is free tomorrow, always ask when she is free. It's easier to work around her schedule
Agreed. Your 2 messages after she said “yea we should” were bad.
Ok. So, after I ask that question, I should’ve immediately asked for her number so that we could’ve planned things out. Also, my text game’s pretty bad on dating apps. I’m trying my best to improve it.
I’d just wait a day or two and say “If you’re nervous I’d understand”
Good strategy. I’ll give it a day and see what happens. In the meantime, I got better things to do.
That was just a poor soft close. You should gave asked the evenings she was free next. Take a look at some of the videos on guides on texting on the yt and my free website
