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Hi! I asked a girl out at the gym. When I asked her out. We talked so long. She was about to leave the gym. But she wouldn't. It was almost as she was waiting for me to ask her out.. she initially said yes. But. I didn't set a specific date. I just asked about mid Christmas. She said she was very available mid Christmas. I saw that she blushed.
Few days after I DM her on insta. "so are you fun at snapchat?" I asked. She replied "very fun" With the snapchat handle.
over snapchat. I Asked her " We should make food together sometimes?"
She said " Omelette?"
I said " You mean scrambled egg , how about scrambled eggs at Sunday 28..
(This girl knew that I suck at making food, I can't even make an omelette)
She replied «Will note that,
I will see if it fits my schedule ;) «
*Saved
Is this a rejection or do I follow up?
I opened another dialogue with her a while after asking if she had some good trivia for me for a quiz I was making. She said she's gonna think about it. Then she came back to me and she thought that none of her things that she thought of was good enough. I forced it out of her. I said those were good, and said" give yourself some credit girl ;)" She then replied with winks and heart eye emojis
Should I still pursue this girl? I haven't heart a word about that date
My theories, she is a bit shy maybe or she thinks I'm overwhelming. I am big on social media locally here. And she works out at my gym so she may be cautious
By the sounds of it i'd ask her out soon because she could be losing interest with the amount of talking you doing on text. It don't need to go on for days and days on multiple platforms. Use Snap for pics and light convo / replies. Just ask her what her availability is like next weekend and close the date from there. In the meantime don't get stuck in long convos like this. You don't need to be Louis Theroux asking question after question, as it seems her initial attraction is there. Keep some mystique before the date.
Yeah, of course, what's there to lose? She's waiting for you to make another move.
props on the initial approach, but it seems like your making some very silly mistakes. Why get her instagram to then get her snapchat. If you meet a girl in real life always get the number. There's no need to bounce her around social media platforms. You just adding unnecessary complexity to the interaction. Secondly your closing is very random and suboptimal. Check out my video on 5 steps to setting up a date. First you soft closed, then figure out her schedule then lastly hard close.
And no, this chick is not rejecting you she probably just doesn't know what shes doing on that random date that you picked. I would just keep pursuing
