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Don’t have to read the whole thing but wanted to send all of it so you can get the gist of how long we were talking. I met her on Instagram. I requested to follow her and she followed me back and liked a shirtless selfie on my highlights. I then messaged her hey x. Thanks for the help
You: Hey x
Her: Hey
You: How’s Spain?
You: Have you finished all your exams for the year now
Her: Got back last night to shitty (area we live) :(
Her: Yeahhhh
You: Eugh
You: How long are you staying in Cov for the summer?
You: That’s fun what do you study?
Her: Till June 26 when I go Barcelona
Her: Gsd hbu
You: We should do something before then
You: Barcelonas so nice are you going with your friends or family?
You: Management
Her: My friendssssss
Her: Ah nice
You: I’m going to Marbella with my friends end of July which is gonna be fun
You: How are you finding your course and what year are you in?
Her: I love it
Her: First year
Her: U going school days
You: I was gonna go and I have a ticket but I went neon last night and then decided not to
You: Are you?
You: Are you circling rn?
Her: Preing
Her: [Photo]
You: I’ve got fomo now
Her: Shld have come
You: I know I actually should’ve was it good
You: Was it full?
Her: Yeaaaaa pretty busy
You: That’s good
You: Do you ever circle with a society?
Her: Nah I don’t circle
You: It’s kind of boring but you should go once to experience it
Her: Nah I’m alright 🤣
Her: Find it rly weird
You: It’s cultish 🤣
You: I wanted the full (uni name) experience though
You: Have you done anything today
Her: My flatmate had her friend over so been hanging w her
You: Fun
You: I’m at the gym
You: [Video] of me flexing my arm
Her: Wow
Her: Which gym do u go to
You: The Puregym in (area we live)
You: To me the campus gym sometimes feels like irl hinge
You: And it gets so busy
Her: Why not campus
Her: Why 🤣
You: It’s kind of like pop! where I see everyone I know except I’m all sweaty
You: Also I don’t live on campus
You: Do you go to the campus gym?
Her: Yeaaaaaa
Her: Oh where do u live
You: Near _____ in beautiful (area we live)
You: Nice
You: Gym girl
Her: Wldnt say do🤣
Her: How come u live there
You: I’m in my final year I’m 22
You: And I don’t live in leam cause I left it so so late to find a house
You: Are you living in leam next year?
Her: Ohhh I see
Her: I am yes
You: Leam is nice
You: Do you want to do something one day this week
You: I can pick you up
I’m open to any and all criticism on my text game. I’m still trying to improve
Also there was no double texting the whole convo
yea your closing was def suboptimal. You just went ffrom casual convo to lets hang out. I recommend downloading firetexts (my app) and it will help you generate better texts www.firetexts.com
Alright. I asked her out just over 24 hrs after the first text. For future reference is that too soon?
the time (24, 48, 72 hours, etc) is largely irrelevanttt
