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Just last night had some drinks date. Good body on her but my good she was boring (sometimes hard to tell in advance).
Eventually pull to my place then make out.
But then she starts doing all that "did you plan that we end up here, i know you did etc...." (not in a pissed off tone but kinda serious). I just replied something along the lines of whether she really took me for a guy that planned stuff (well even though I might be ;) ).
So no bang happened just some more make out and in between "what are your expectations" -> "none really".
She eventually left, not a terrible note, goodbye kiss. Just then today she texted "were you disappointed nothing happened last night blabla"
Maybe some of you guys encountered chicks like that that almost wanna shame you. Probably not gonna pursue her any further.
You were able to pull her to your place and make out. So she was at least toying with the idea of fucking you.
But I don't think she wanted to confront you or shame you, this is just LMR.
I wasn't there spying on you guys in your crib, but it seems to me that you didn't make her feel like it "just happened". The wrong vibe overall.
I'm not 100% with lmr but here are some things that work for me.
-alcohol
-movie at your place, makes escalation without talking more natural
-2 steps forward, 1 step back
-handle her verbal objections/shit tests right, might have been best not to give direct answers to those ones
-pull back a little when she shows non-compliance. This is important
-rub pussy through her clothes then reach in and finger her once she's hot.
-Once I get her in like an almost-orgasm state from fingering she'll want the dick
Thanks for your input could be true. I was feeling a lil off that day anyhow due to being pissed off at work lol.
That probably shined through
Yes, I have encountered this several times. it is nothing more than a shit test. The girl is on the verge with sleeping with you but decides to give you what is usually the final shit test.
You can pass it in 2 ways . First, by totally owning everything . Second, by trolling her. The key is to remain completely uneffected and show zero shame . However, the second you start hesitating, showing any signs of shame , or giving her roundabout answer - you fail. And if you fail this shit test, than sex is very rarely happening.
When I first got into game, I lost some lay ups in the same manner as you. But than , eventually I caught on that this was all part of the game and that I have nothing to be ashamed of .
On the words of David D, attraction isn't a choice.
I am zero to a hundred and unapologetic. Its weird not to esculate. I likely esculate at the bar or out and pull-back a bit as if to imply dread, as though she turned me off.
I went back to a girls place. She smoked weed because "anxious," and its like, why be anxious? ESCULATE ^^^^!
One sec, nothing to arm around her to up her brah. The one sec she's anxious and the next she's holding my hand, walking back to her room. Clawing my back and ripping clothes off. It was absurd.
Turn your brain off. Go full neanderthal. Obv, no or stop means hold go.
Screenshot nudes, sexting, vid sex.
We live in a false accusations #metoo era. Play safe.
