Dating app texting to date - need advice on pre date texting

I noticed that I have been having success when I match with someone who is actually texting back and I do not text her to much/wait to text back.
I found out the hard way that texting to much before meeting up can kill the vibe/say the wrong things/etc. I am trying to meet up a recent match this coming Wens but it may extend later into the week. She messages me back right away I have started some sexual banter with her. I did not text her to day because I do not want to fall into the trap again of texting to much and it dying out but yet I also do not want to make it seem cold. Any tips?