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Invited a girl out for drinks and she agreed but I’m currently staying with parents and she lives almost an hour away. She mentioned meeting each other in the middle but seems a hard sell to get back to her place from there. She hinted before she might be DTF saying “I’m for sure inexperienced with the stuff I’d want to do with you” (in reference to a BDSM picture on my profile) so was wondering how to set up this date better?
Ace, how’s it going buddy? The best approach here would to meet her at a nearby bar close to your home. Chances are if you meet her somewhere in the middle this will reduce the chances of you fucking her. On the other side if she comes to you she’s not going to want to loose that ROI on her part driving a full hour to meet you. I would suggest telling her “Do you know where xx bar is” & then after she responds just say “let’s meet there, you’ll love it” with the whole BDSM talk I wouldn’t bring it up anymore instead show her in person. Now with you still living at home with parents I’m not sure if they’re cool about you having chicks over, but if not I would just sneak her into your room when your parents are asleep. I used to do this, but my parents care less shit about me banging girls in my home garage gym now. There is a YouTube video Alex, did on this topic check it out, just search “How To Get Laid On Tinder & Bumble... Even If You Still Live With Your Parents!”
^This!
Meeting halfway and hoping that she'll invite you back to her place is a very suboptimal strategy. Check out my video on YouTube called "How to get laid when you still live with her parents" it's one of my earlier videos, but it covers what to do in these situations when logistics are bad.