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Sorry for double post guys,
Brief background, tinder girl I moved to insta, went for meet-up she couldn’t, apparently not over ex / to busy. I perused being non needy but nothing materialised.
3weeks later she reopens after seeing me in person.
The vibe here is really boring any suggestions on to make this more flirty/interesting,
Thanks guys!
the texting here, is too platonic and lax any kind of sexual tension or teasing, for example when she said she quit her job i would have said "congratulations, we should celebrate". When she said she saw me jogging i would have said "damn why didn't you say hi you creep ;)".
I recommend going thru some of my videos on text game, as well as some of my love reports so you can see what i am talking about here in action. Also, as a side not definitely dont IG close girls on tinder. You want to always go straight for the number.
Thanks man, I went for number close originally but she gave Ig instead
Several missed opportunities to be fun and flirty.
1- when she mentions seeing you your response should have been along the “Ah stalking me already”
2- when asking about your running style, reframe that question to be sexual “I actually think I might caught you checking me out 😏”
You get the point. Focus on flirting. It’ll make it sexual
Is there anything I can say now to make it flirty?
Here’s what you could do bro. 1) make reference to wild side... “And you’d be the wildest one there 😏” 2) From there it either leads to qualifying or you have to reassure “it’s cool though. Wild girls are my type”
Sidenote. Tone it down on the wild emojis and text laughing. You want to be taken seriously.
If you want to go direct style, tell her "Well, the only way you can tame a wild animal is with good food... And right now you're texting one. I'll let you get a hang of my furr if you can treat me to a nice dinner"
And if you want to test the water first and jauge her interest, say: "Oh so that's why you reached out. You wanted to get a hang of a wild animal like myself and build up your reserve. Beware tho, I'm not an easy catch" and watch her response. Is she flirting back? Did she react positively or negatively? The more negative her answer, the lower her interest... No matter what she responds you can say, "well, I'm usually easily tamed with good food. Are you a great cook?". If she says no, say "that's too bad. Well, instead we can grab something good from outside. When are you free to get together?".
If she says "Yes", say "Cool... Then we shall share a nice meal at my place... If you take care of the cooking, I promess to do the dishes. When are you free to get together?" That's it. Let us know which approach you took and what followed up so we can help out more my dude. Cheers.
