Canned openers/ opening scripts

Not all, but I’ve seen a couple guys on here criticizing canned openers (hey trouble, hey future lover, I like your style, and then following with a couple scripted responses mirroring their vibe) and cliche lines, but the truth is these are perfect for repeatedly overcoming early shit tests and screens pretty nicely for their vibe (don’t think they aren’t screening us out also). In having exercised these simple lines repeatedly, they become second nature, that’s when you can focus on moving a Queen or a knight versus a pawn, freeing up your thoughts to focus on - invested girls; customization of flirty/banter messaging unique to the girl; and overall see patterns of responses that girls give and recognize the categories Alex talks about (explicit dtf, subconscious dtf, etc.) and from there you can get cute or gamey and it’s a better chance she will bite than bounce. It will allow you to get further into interactions to then learn the advanced/ deeper aspects of text game/vibing. Keep it simple. Memorize as many scripted replies as possible, and you will begin to see ways to customize and tailor them to your personality so it feels more authentic, plus you will feel more confident saying it and the girl will pick up on that.

Growth I see in myself:

I tend to be more direct with girls, confident they are already attracted to me

Im getting better at picking up on the vibe the girl gives and it actually makes bantering and flirting more of a fun experience than what I used to see as intimidating.

My previous mindset thought, “oh I’m deceiving and lying to women to trick them into bed because they don’t wanna be whores and therefore I have to be the chatty, co-dependent nice guy that “wins” their attraction (because I didn’t already have their attraction in my mind), only to sometimes get away with this behavior and feel guilty when the sexual chemistry/vibe wasn’t as good as I thought and I wanted out, then I’m a fake asshole that tricked her)

Instead my mindset is now: women are people, just like men, actually many women want to have sex just as much if not more then men. The thing is, they want someone good at it and confident in it, that takes a straight forward approach that isn’t deceitful. They want to be seduced and “wooed” it’s our job to do it. If we don’t, somebody else will, simple as that.

I’ve grown my abundance mindset, great for allowing me to take risks in the things I try and say to women, I have a lot less day to day anxiety because my primitive instinctual need for sex is being met more now. We are doing a good service to give women multiple orgasms. I realized Ithis reading lay reports of various members and also thankfully having experience thank yous and praise from women myself now.

Keep trusting the process . It works.