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What's up guys, I'm pretty new to the hookup thing and pwf. I currently have 2 fuck buddies on rotation and I'm finding myself accidentally liking both of then too much. Like I almost want to take them on an actual date or something. Obviously the logical part of me doesnt really want to go for a girl that fucked me on the first date which is why I'm not entertaining the idea. Is this just a product of me being inexperienced. Does anyone else have any issues with building too much chemistry with a fuck buddy?
Hey bro, there's nothing wrong with a girl who sleeps with you on the first date. Even if they came straight to your house, it doesn't necessarily mean they're not quality. Could be they wanted to experiment a bit, or they made an exception for you. You really have to judge their character for yourself and that comes with experience. If you haven't been with many girls, then it's pretty normal to feel this way- it's like when you had oneitis for your first crush.
Thanks man, maybe I am being too judgemental. I'll keep that in mind
Hey man its okay to feel like its a red flag for her to sleep w you on the 1st date, and maybe it really is or maybe it isnt BUT you cant judge her whole character and disqualify her from being girlfriend material based off that 1 thing. I say just spend more time with her, go for a walk or coffee and then you will see how u feel. Gl!:)
I don't think "Building too much chemistry" is an issue. The issue would be that you are getting needier than them, which I don't know if you are unless I see screenshots of text convo. A girl sleeping with you on the first date shouldn't disqualify her from a relationship. Her value systems and how promiscuous is she and her pair bonding abilities should be the criteria for determination. If you think you're getting too attached, I'd just hookup with more girls and see how you feel while drawing away contact with them
You make no sense, by your own logic no one would want to date you since you also fucked someone on a first date. This has to be the dumbest thing I've read on here
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