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@John Jacobs has an interesting theory that sounds very plausible.
I will add that "for romantic purposes" is really something that will only sound good if you have joked with the word romantic before. Otherwise it comes out of no where & it can sound neutral or bad.
Lastly, sometimes it just happens
I think more conversation was needed. Once she said “yeah that would be good” you could have asked “what’s your schedule like?” to get her a bit more invested and solidify the date more
yeah agree with this. Her "yeah that would be good" is a soft commitment, jumping too hard on to that is gonna push her away. Probably would have been better to say something like "Shoot me your # and we can set something up"
That last text was a big mistake. The second to last text was a smaller mistake.
I tend to agree with this. Could you go into more detail?
"Cool shoot me your number for romantic purposes."
At that point he might as well just say, "Ok, I need your number so I can have sex with you later." I think she would appreciate the honesty, honestly.
Then he makes it more awkward by saying, "If you are too nervous, I understand." How do women read? She's going to be thinking, "Should I be nervous? Why would he use that word?" He just cemented her aversion.
Have you been ghosted before? Some women are just flaky. You didn't do anything wrong here...
Yes but not after agreeing to meet up before
Yeah that sucks but trying to wrangle a flake isn't worth the effort.
She was sick it’s okay
Thanks for updating
I usually write "...?" and some girls reply. she could be busy or something.
