Loading…
I asked her about a second date, she said she thinks we didnt vibe well so ther wont be a second date. What can i answer, i thought the date was going well. We had dinner. Nothing expensive. Your thought for an answer? I think of something like „what are your concerns?“ or „what makes you think that way?“
Go with the second question and ask why she felt that way. She may not give you a second date, but you need to figure out why there was such a disparity between what you felt and what she felt. Maybe there is something you aren't aware of that was effecting the date. Whatever her answer is, now you can at least correct the problem for future dates with other girls. Best of luck 🤞
You can't reframe lack of attraction. Take the L, learn from your mistakes and move on. As a side note, don't do dinner dates. Even if it's 5$ chk wings. Because food makes women less horny
Move on, it's not gonna work. She said no, that's a wrap. I'd recommend drinks at night only for a first date from now on. No dinners, no daytime meets, as Zan says the evening has a certain magic and spark to it.
Did you ask her in person or over text? Gotta give em time to process a little. Nah don't use those messages makes you look desperate. Are you living in new york city? Girls just use guys for free dinner out there. You can say something like "I am just getting warmed up" or say something that is interesting and that she has not seen the best of you yet it was only the first time. Both of you haven't got a chance to get to know each other well enough to judge. Or just leave it alone and move on
