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I have tested close to a hundred different of pickup lines / openers. These are the ones, I found to work the best
This opener has the highest response rate out everything we have tested. The reason it works so well is because it invokes a lot of curiosity on the girls part. She thinks “oh what is he curious about” and is thus compelled to respond.
The key with this opener though is to have a good follow up. You don’t wanna just follow this up with “what do you do for fun” or something boring. A standard follow up text we had a lot of success with was “how do you look so innocent, yet full of trouble at the same time”.
Believe it or not, this opener also works really well. It creates intrigue, because the girl starts wondering “why would my dad hate him” and thus responds. It is also quite polarizing, which is a must when it comes to dating apps in 2025. There are too many guys messaging the girls the same old crap, you need to stand out.
This one doesn’t invoke nearly as much curiosity so the response rate will be a bit lower, but it is more versatile. Another advantage with this one, is that it invokes the “we frame”, which is a powerful texting technique, where you talk about you and the girl as one unit.
Girls will commonly respond by saying “haha yes we do” and from there you can really go in any direction.
Also, to see more openers/ pickup lines as well as examples of each one of these in action, check out the original guide
https://firetexts.com/best-tinder-pick-up-lines/
I confirm that the first opener guarantees a very good response rate. However, I always found it difficult to proceed in the chats in which I used it and that is why I abandoned it.