2nd date issue

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First date went well - after a week of texting to plan 2nd date she is having objections like - I am not the right mindset, cant give my full etc. so I used the Alex reply about need to take chances. But same objections again. how do I approach this?

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post full screenshots for more context, could be many things, did you close the first date?

If a girl said she's "not in the right mindset" to me I'd just joke and say something like, "a romantic wine date could help with that"

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The interest is low. She didn't feel the sexual attraction with you. You'd probably need to work on building sexual tension

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Thank you! I agree, now looking back at it.

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R

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Sounds tough man, maybe try a call or ft cuz it'll be far easier to reframe things and address her objections

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thanks man. I will give it shot but just going in with low expectations now.

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