2nd date issue
5 Comments
5 Cmts
3y ago
First date went well - after a week of texting to plan 2nd date she is having objections like - I am not the right mindset, cant give my full etc. so I used the Alex reply about need to take chances. But same objections again. how do I approach this?
The interest is low. She didn't feel the sexual attraction with you. You'd probably need to work on building sexual tension
R
26 Posts (+4), 116 Cmts (+37)
Sounds tough man, maybe try a call or ft cuz it'll be far easier to reframe things and address her objections

32 Posts (+21), 576 Cmts (+276)
post full screenshots for more context, could be many things, did you close the first date?
If a girl said she's "not in the right mindset" to me I'd just joke and say something like, "a romantic wine date could help with that"