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Looking back on last year has been crazy. I went from walking through the desert of riding a 5 year dry spell to going on a total of 48 dates collectively from Tinder, Bumble, & Facebook Dating and having 21 girls that I closed in total. & Out of those 21 girls their were 2 girls I retained for a short period of time. & 5 girls that I wanted to see again but wasn’t able to.
The biggest headaches came with dealing with having to overcome IG & Snapchat requests and losing leads and retention. The period of time I was on Bumble was also a massive headache. None of those dates were any good and most were just wasted nights with girls I hadn’t sexualized with. I reached burn out on several occasions. But I’m addicted to this shit so the longest I went without using some form of meeting girls was a month or 2.
I don’t like that I have to aggressively run leads in order to have sex. I’d love to reach a place where it becomes easier to meet girls or have 2-3 girls I enjoy seeing regularly so I can just sit back and not have to run dating apps to meet girls and get laid and live the rest of my life.
I’ve become more comfortable going on dates. A lot of that in my opinion came from channeling how I’d see Alex act when he’d demo for me with Natty. But I definitely know I’m far from smooth. I still have no idea what I’m doing when I’m going down on girls and how to give them multiple oral orgasms. The progression from make out to sex is always fumbly. I still have no idea how the fuck to be “dominant” as someone who’s not physically overpowering. I still don’t know what to say when brats shit test me. I still don’t know how to handle LMR and make a girl fall in love with me. A lot of this just gets overwhelming.
I’d like to direct my focus to working out the kinks in how I run a date and working on getting my SMV to an 8. I do feel the more physically attractive you are to a girl, the more easier she will make it for you to have chemistry with her because of her delusional infatuation. This is what my deep fake has taught me. A lot of my limiting beliefs still come from my SMV.
Those are some pretty great stats (date and lay-wise at least). I'd be interested to know how much time in total you've spent on this as just in posts on this Mastermind Forum, you've basically written a novel. Then there's screen-shotting and uploading all the pics, then there's the period you went and lived with Alex (I believe). Why haven't you moved to a city like NYC by now so you could really get those numbers up as it from your LRs it sounds like you live in a place that people pass through but don't actually live within an hour of?