We were having fun, and when we smashed it was good and 🔥. And when she wouldn't smash date 2, at first I was annoyed (silently) but checked myself - that's always her right and not anything "wrong" on her part. It was the first Tuesday I couldn't meet that the passive aggression ramped up. And reading this, she basically set me up to flake on me while trying to shame me, to force me into her disingenuous frame (she gets way more inebriated than me and literally brews alcohol for fun in spare time & fucked me after drinking on the first date). She lives with her two elementary school aged kids and parents in her parents small suburban house, with no plans to move out. She has no value as a long term partner whatsoever. What a delusional creature.

I'll always remember her for this quote

"10 years ago, my first childhood friend got divorced and it was a surprise. Then I got divorced 6 years ago. At this point, all (yes, all!) my childhood girlfriends are now divorced or currently going through a divorce ".