How to respond to “just need to focus on my self”
We’ve been texting for a while and she’s been responding decently fast but upon making actual plans she sends this
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We’ve been texting for a while and she’s been responding decently fast but upon making actual plans she sends this
"Where is this coming from suddenly?" Get to the root of the problem and fix it.
Agree, whenever you get a flakey excuse you need to get to the bottom of it and fix it. Almost always the problem is anxiety and uncertainty. Because who tf is on tinder without the intent to date.
To be honest, I wasn’t trying to go that route. You sorta twisted what I said. The goal though was to get to the underlying problem in a very non-needy way. Follow up with, “if you’re too nervous, I’d understand”
