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Should I still say “I’ll get the wine and massage oil ready” I don’t want to make it sound like I’m trying to give her a foot massage
Should I still say “I’ll get the wine and massage oil ready” I don’t want to make it sound like I’m trying to give her a foot massage
Get her to invest into the idea more. "And wine of course"
Or "and your wine preference with that is...?"
Do you think it would be bad to say “I’ll get the wine and massage oil ready”
No, it just doesn't really 'require' her to invest there as you've already sort of laid it out. Technically it's a soft close, but it's also a hard close because she will need to consciously agree and the last thing you want is for her to logically talk hersself out of it. Considering her investment has been relatively low