The order I would usually go in if I'm doing a bar

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So i had a great conversation with this Bumble girl. She showed a lot of interest in me and after 4 texts we made plans to meet this Thursday (but we didn't talk logistics, what we gonna do exactly and at what time etc, we just agreed that we'll meet on Thursday). At the end of the conversation i asked her to give me her phone number, so we can keep in touch through Whattsapp (and she did). This conversation in Bumble took place yesterday (Saturday evening). Today (Sunday) i sent her a simple message on Whattsapp: "Hey, this is Koby from Bumble". "Little Bingo also says hello" (and i attached a photo of my cute dog). She responded: "he's so adorable 😍" I replied: "yes he is, he's waiting to meet you" She replied: "this is very mutual 🤗". I left her message unread. This is my question: what do i do to NOT mess it up until Thursday? I know that i need to keep texting to the minimum, that my goal is to meet her in person and not to become her texting buddy etc. But being too indifferent is also not a good thing. So should i just ignore her message and text her again on Wensday? Should i text her back somthing short and sweet like "I'll make sure this will happen, i will be in touch" (and then on wensday i'll text her somthing like "did you already choose what you are wearing for me tommorow?". I could really use your help guys 🤔

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Bean .

The order I would usually go in if I'm doing a bar/coffee shop (if she doesn't drink)
Find out when shes free and if it matches with anything I'm free on
"My kind of girl do you know where ***bar/coffee shop is"
"Cool I'll meet you outside there at xxx time"

If I'm pulling to my apartment
Find out when shes free
"How about we split a bottle of wine on my romantic balcony for our date".
Deal with any objections including I might have to dial it back to a bar/coffee shop
"My kind of girl here's the address"

Personally I don't think you've sorted out logistics, you've not mentioned a location unless I've missed something further up, you can always re-open her by asking if she's picked a cute outfit out for the romantic date yet

koby koby

"you can always re-open her by asking if she's picked a cute outfit out for the romantic date yet".

Exactly. So that's why i think now to just send her the following message: "Bingo is sending you his regards. I'll be in touch on Wednesday for when and where wxactly we're meeting".

And then on Wensday ill send her the "have you picked a cute outfit" message.

Maybe I'm wrong, but if i start discussing now at what bar exactly we're gonna meet, and at what time exactly we gonna meet, it will be super needy, i think it's much better to do that on Wensday.

How to NOT mess it up until the date?