Hey so I've been posting a lot but figured thanks to the advice I've been getting that I might come off as too gamey. Problem is I'm not sure what to do about it, I mean, how can I not be boring or platonic without being gamey? Any thoughts or examples?
Imo. Being to gamey is like trying to sexualize or joke about everything the girl says. It's ok to be witty when you first meet talk to her but it's only fine for a second. Then, it's better to use normal topics and sexualize here and there but that's it. You don't game after you are having a consistent convo with her. In other words, you game to hook her attention and that's about it.
Damn, seems so obvious now. It's a shame I wasted a lot of matches tho, but I'll keep it in mind.
Btw, any fun topics you recommend to take the conversation over the right path?