I’ve been watching some of alpha male strategies videos and he always says never validate a woman with compliments or something like a compliment. I’d understand not to over do it with the validation but AMS claims to never ever compliment women and you will be better off. I always thought a sexual compliment is a good way to advance in the interaction. Alex or anybody seen any of Alpha Male Strategies vids and if so what do you think about the no compliment rule or Alpha Male Strategies in general? Thanks.
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Yea I agree, AMS talks about not giving women your “non sexual attention” like long phone calls or non sex dates after you get laid, only contacting her 1 time a week and purposely flaking sometimes last min after you already had sex as well.
Basically make her wonder and think you don’t like her as much as she thought.
I’ve heard a lot of people even older people when I was younger tell me to kinda treat women like shit with back handed compliments etc
Right now I’m in a situation where I fucked this hot 19 year old Latina on the second date and then I kinda kept my contact to maybe 2 times a week. Then I scheduled a date about 3 weeks later after I was done with work and she flaked but seemed like a legit reason regarding her mom not letting her out past a certain time, so I gave her the Benefit of the doubt and hit her with “breaking my heart line”.
Any way she unfollowed me on insta a few days later and I called her a few days later and she gave me a story about how one of her male friend did it.
Scheduled a non sexual dinner date on Tuesday after that Cause I am also young and I got a system for renting air bnbs for girls I fuck on tinder.
I wanted to make sure she wasn’t gonna flake again before I rent the air bnb so I call it a confirmation sex date.
Any way I didn’t contact her for a week and scheduled a date for Saturday, she texted me Friday before and said she can’t make it because she’s on her period.
I said 12 hours later
“I hope you feel better just hit me up when your better mami”
She said “thanks 😊” and no response Since Saturday morning
AMS says to leave the ball in her court and see if she contacts you if not move on, because at that point your chasing her.
Do you think maybe it’s a test or something else like loss of interest or maybe she got back with her boyfriend.
Also what do you think about leaving the ball in her court strategy after she flakes like that.
Could it regain loss of interest
Thanks and sorry for the long paragraphs just really curious to what you personally think of AMS strategies because yours worked for me more then any other.
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I disagree with most of them
purposely flaking is a shitty thing to do and is only gonna make her want to flake on you next time
don’t treat women like shit - if you do you will attract only the ones who have issues. All the good ones will leave you
I text my booty calls as many times as I want. I’m not worried that if I text them multiple times they will disappear. What he’s getting then is don’t be constantly texting them 24/7, as long as that’s not you, you’re good
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Honestly in your situation it just sounds like a bit of bad luck and poor communication, I text a girl right after sex and then try to get the second bang in within a week. 3 weeks is a long time. Also, there’s zero need to do dinner dates. Just invite her over for drinks
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Yea thanks man
I did text her right after sex and say “that was 🔥 “
And did send her sexual memes I got off peg insta occasionally while I was busy Working.
Imma just continue to do what works for me and that was what you taught.
One last thing, should I re engage her today or in a few days to try and schedule a date?