Was this the first message you sent to her phone after getting her number from tinder?
Does she know that's your number?
Remember once you get a womans phone number try to keep the banter to a minimum, make the conversation more about setting up the date and less about keeping her entertained. Especially if that's what you feel like you're messing up on. Less is more.
I'm sure even women from Columbia know who ryan gosling is. But you can also use the skeleton meme " waiting on your reply "
Or you can say " don't worry, this can be our secret"
" Are you always this talkative" or " am I wrong" like suggested. You want to wait at least a couple days before you do any of this, give her some time to respond, if she gets the feeling you're needy or desperate she's going to either ghost you or flake out on the date