There are few mistakes that I noticed that stood

There are few mistakes that I noticed that stood out:

Skipping the soft close - you got a bit too over eager at skipped a key step in the process, which is the soft close . You want the girl to agree to the general idea of meeting up with you before you tried to make specific plans.
Coming off as cliche fuck boy- this is hard to put into exact words , but there is a big difference between a cliche fuck boy and a confident sexual man. A big part of this is getting sexual investment from the girl. Both categories will go sexual, but a fuck boy will rush through the serialization and come off as some off that will fuck anything. A confident sexual man on the other hand , will get the girl to open up, invest and qualify . The girl will feel like she is going to meet with Christian Grey..
Agreeing to her , I hat Tinder comment -you could've have either trolled era little " I know, all these girls trying to get into my pants" or challenge her a bit " Why" . Your comment though was the nail on the coffin unfortunately.

Thank you for this feedback!!

Ok the soft close part makes sense as you and Aaron explained it. I just thought from the thread of all the winky faces and what not that there was a green light, so I went for the kill. That confusion emoji i sent after she said no was genuine lol.

That's my biggest sticking point right now is to sexualize the convo without coming off as a cliche fuck boy. I've been slowing it down and building more rapport, but I keep getting stuck in friendly banter if I don't sexualize it right from the start, like saying "you're fucking sexy" in this example.

Was the "You scared?" comment in the right direction of getting the girl to qualify herself?

I keep matching with so many hot girls and they keep slipping AHHH. I'm determined to become a success story here.

Aaron Johnson

Maybe the single biggest thing I've learned from Alex and the product: never, ever hard close until you've soft closed. No exceptions.

As for sexualizing: I'd actually argue you should start with friendly banter then "test the water" for sexual compliance - you don't need to sexualize out of the gate and saying "you're fucking sexy" out of the gate can give away a bit of your value.

Finally - and I don't get paid to say this, I'm just a community member and loyal devotee of the program: This stuff is covered in-depth in the paid product. If you're committed to quickly and then consistently getting results with these hot girls, it'll be the best $169 you've ever spent. Especially getting access to the Mastermind.

avilench .

Good, the more PWF success stories we have the better. First off, you don't have to sexualize over text. There is no rule that says you have to do it. When I travel to 3rd world countries, I typically barely sexualize over text and just invite girls over for wine, and sexualize in person.

Some people prefer to do all of the "heavy lifting" over text, and some are the complete opposite and prefer to do it in person. Me personally, I am comfortable with both, but I find that I do the best when I take an approach somewhere in the middle. You need to figure out what works best for you.

That being said, if you decide that you want to sexualize over text, check out this article that Aaron wrote, it walks you through most of the steps.

https://www.playingfire.com/how-to-build-compliance-sexualize-over-text/

In terms of whether "are you scared" was good, personally I am not a fan. I don't like to use the word scared in general when talking to girls, because it comes off a little weird. I much prefer to say something like "if you are too nervous, I'd understand."

Tinder text game - WTF happened