Tbh if you don’t sleep with them on the first date

Hi lads, Just went around to this hot girls house from Hinge to “spoon” Turned up she was wearing nothing but a baggy T-shirt and lace panties that I could see clearly, quite slutty. I was there on her bed for about 1hr, she was on her phone a lot but we vibed while we got closer to each other -I had my hand around her at one point. She then suddenly hit me with “I’m gonna go to sleep” and ordered me a Uber. I tried to go in for the kiss before the Uber turned up, which she said “ I don’t feel well” and turned the other way The Uber notification came saying it was outside, I said “kiss me” which she said “no” I said “ah okay” then swiftly left for the Uber. What would you do next here? I think fucked up by not escalating quick enough. She was like a 9.5/10 party girl type. Annoying cos I packed a tie in my bag that I didn’t get to tie her up with ahah. What would you do/text here?

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David A

Tbh if you don’t sleep with them on the first date it’s over. So just start talking to another girl. You can definitely try to get her on a date again but tbh I would put my energy to another girl

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J e

Yeah man I feel this, but this time I actually wanted to fuck and had attraction. Usually when we don’t fuck it’s because we don’t vibe at all.

What’s a good reopening text from here?

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