When the girl is asking a lot and screening hard

I don't mind her asking and investing in a way, but it takes the leading part and also not the topics I want to discuss, like job and why I'm somewhere. How do you handle and take back control? I'm more asking for some general guidelines or mindsets behind these type of interactions. Also, her English is not the best I suppose, the R rated things didn't go that well, so it would be a bit harder to use some humor here as she might not understand. I'm thinking " how bout we conduct this interview over a glass of wine lol" Thanks! You guys rock