I matched with this girl I’ve known for about 20 years. I was never close with her, but was good friends with her friends (banged a few of them) back in the day. I randomly made out with her 10 years ago at a nightclub, but not sure if she remembers any of this. Anyways I think I should’ve bantered a bit more as I don’t think she was hooked yet. Maybe my last line was a little flat? I was just re-soft closing as it had been a week since we last texted. Is it fine to use a standard takeaway here, something like “if you’re too nervous I’d understand”, or say something else?