Thanks Herb. Could you give a couple examples of “

Hi y'all - I'm new to the Playing with fire community. Wanted to ask a general question... I just got back on Tinder, but I have more (and better quality) matches on Hinge. The issue I keep running into is, the conversation will start off strong, she'll respond quickly, and then all of a sudden, for no apparent reason, she'll slow responding or stop altogether. I try to revive it by following up with some lines from Alex. Sometimes they reengage but most of the time it doesn't last. I'll include some screenshots here of a few convos. Hopefully from these you can see the kind of thing that's going on. Any wisdom woud be much appreciated!!

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Pierson Keating

Thanks Herb. Could you give a couple examples of “something to vibe more”

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Herb S

Just seeing now, your "So you like cats and dogs. What more do I need to know about you?" is too much of a question. Go with something simple to reinitiate "happy Taco Tuesday; Happy Friyay" or the Ryan Gosling Happy x day meme.
They work so well as it's easy to answer with a simple "hiiii" or whatever girls say. haha

To your "vibe" question: You could ask something about how she's finding living in Austin now. Can be normal boring like "And how have you adapted to life in Austin?" or something more fun like "How do you find it living amongst cowboys now?" etc. You get the gist.

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Pierson Keating

Cool, thanks man. I ended up unmatching with her because she became completely unresponsive, but yeah I will try to simplify in general.

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Convos invariably lose momentum