Hey boys. Met a girl out clubbing and we went back to her place and had sex. First girl since my 4 year relationship recently ended. She was very cool, we chatted for ages we both studied the same university degree, things went well. Sex was good she covered my in bite marks, definitely wasn't my best performance of all time i'd had a lot to drink that night. I texted her 36 hours later - "Hey had such a good time with you on Saturday night, lets do it again sometime." No response yet, been about 36 hours since I sent it. I know she may take a while to respond, so i thought I would ask what you guys think my double text should be if she doesn't respond. My guess is my lame text probably came on a bit strong, I'm not looking for anything serious, just causal hookups until she moves states later this year. thanks in advance!
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She liked the message after a couple days, no response, Im gonna wait like a good week and see what happens, I'm thinking maybe I hit her with the hail mary and say hey heres my number text me next time your DTF or something along those lines. My thought process is since we've already hooked up idk if a standard takeaway will be likely to make her respond, might make her freeze up even more. What are your thoughts?
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i think itll come out desperate. I would recommend a standard takeaway or some variation of one
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Thanks. Update, a week after she liked the message, I DM’d her “How’s your week looking, we should catch up soon”. Three days later and after no response I tried the takeaway “Don’t worry it’s not a trick question” and still no response she hasn’t opened it, been another three days since that message. It’s been two weeks now since we hooked up I’m thinking I just take the L still hit tho stance and move on from this one I don’t think I’ll be seeing her a second time.