I need some advice and I don’t know if here is the right place tbh, but I’ll try anyway since all the feedback I’ve had here before has been great.  I recently lost my v to an older milf a few months back, and we have insane sexual chemistry, we keep seeing each other and the dynamics are fire. The issue is, I’m experiencing the infamous can’t cum problem most guys get when they first start laying pipe, most definitely due to being not used to the v and being a “hand” guy up until now. The good news is I do everything else right, I make her cum with my hands, intense kisses, but my penetration technique needs work, it’s hit and miss, sometimes i cant Even find her hole in time and get flaccid, and I ain’t really feeling too much stimulation by the vagina yet though it’s slowly changing, it ain’t dramatic. basically I’m doing 90% of the stuff by the book, to the point where she doesn’t even believe that it’s my first few times, but the penetration and the cumming part are something I need some fixes with, maybe it’s just a time thing? Keep at it until it falls into place? No doubt some performance anxiety plays a part.  

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1. Yh I stopped all of the jerking off a couple weeks ago cold turkey. It definitely helps regain sensitivity, I just think I need a bit of time to adapt to the new sensation of the female anatomy.

2. Maybe a bit of alcohol like wine etc instead? I ain’t much of a smoker tbh.

3. i actually don’t have a huge issue with being turned on, she turns me on plenty tbh, to the point where now it’s just blue balls and pre cum 😂 it’s more of a maintaining the strength issue…sometimes I’m ready to go inside and then the hole is too small, so I get flaccid as a result of waiting and failing to penetrate. Then she’d ride in cowgirl and I ain’t really feeling much, so I’d switch to missionary and start to see her respond to the thrusts. A lot is probably also experimenting with the technique of different positions etc.

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1) that's ggood, but yea give it more time

2) nah alcohol will actually have the opposite efffect. Don'tt recommend that

3) I would get some watter based lube that willl make gettting inside MUCH easier, and a lot less painful ffor her

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