I'm like extremely lucky to have the looks, when tinder used to work i had hundred of matches, compliments, and at least 10 first date lays. I moved to Milan last may thinking tinder will work better in a big city but it's just dead now. I'm in Milan so in one of the best cities in the world to approach but approach anxiety is absolutely gonna ruin my life. If this keeps going until i lose my looks i will be fucked. I have girls staring all the time, yesterday for example i was at McDonald's, like every Friday evening there was plenty of young attractive girls that want to grab something after school. There was this group of girls staring at me, they see an attractive guy that looks like a fuck boy, with earrings, tattoo, hat, but i acted like a pussy on the inside and did not approach. They kept staring until i finished my coffee and now I'm so hurt and frustrated because i will lose my looks and get old without fun experiences to remember. What i should've have done in this situation? They were 3 girls, no free table next to them. Approach and ask one of them for ig? I feel it takes an extremely high level of courage, but at the same time i proved to myself i can do it. I approached in the past. My ig also sucks and i still don't have the money for unreal pics, so my brain uses that as an excuse. Young girls like to give ig, not the number. Same thing happens when I'm in the city center next to the cathedral, if a girl stare at me i get self conscious and can't look back at her, which is absurd because they are the best ones to approach. I also star feeling weird when I'm at the mall or walking in the city center looking for tourists or local girls, it's like i start to feel like a predator as if everybody knows what I'm looking for. I also start to think that the girl i approach will know I've been looking for girls all day. If it wasn't for all this i could approach 100 girls a day and get every week in Milan, I'm absolutely wasting and throwing away my life and it hurts. The fact that i have the looks hurts even more
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Well at least you got the self awareness to realize the problem is you, that's def an important step. Here's what i would do
1) suck it up and get unrealphotos. You only need 1 month. that is $300. If you use coupon code PWF you also get 10% off, thats $270. You can put it on a credit cardd for noww if you dont have the cash
2) Force yourself to approach. Have a rule that you are not allowedd to go home unttil you do a minimum of 5 approaches
3) since you menttioned anxietty, i recommeend the demonic confideence challeengee. Here is my vid with instructions
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=O4YvsXuoMLw
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Thank you, i will not pay the rent this month so i can get unreal. I'm tired of sleeping in this fucking room with coaches. Unreal introduced settlements so so i thin i will get lifetime and pay 200euros first month
-Thats the same room i used this summer, i will do it again. Not going home unless i do 5 approaches. I'm still the one who will have to enforce, but that's the nature of approach anxiety i guess, it's a battle with yourself
Thank you for the challange, i will do it next month when i will settle in a new room
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okay man, best of luck