I feel like going to her will reduce my chances to getting the goods. She’s about a 45 minute drive. So kinda far. Should I just try to keep it real? Be like “ look I’m thinking this is going to be casual. Are you interested in hooking up”... thoughts guys? Could really use it rn
Yeah don’t ask that “like “ look I’m thinking this is going to be casual. Are you interested in hooking up?”
Her anti-slut defense will go haywire and you’ll be ghosted.
Instead, keep it simple and take her up on ubering somewhere close to you, a bar or something like she said where after you build some more comfort and attraction in person you can take her back to yours. She changed her mind on you picking her up directly cause she needs more comfort.
I agree. But I need a reason to bring her to me. An Uber would be too expensive for how far she’s traveling. Should I say “I know a good bar we can hit up by me and don’t know your area. Could you come to me Wednesday or Thursday night?”
Don’t say by me cause again it may trigger her defense lol. I’m trying to craft this so you won’t have to deal with a last minute concern or objection, anyway, do you know what kinda drinks she likes specifically, like margaritas for example, or you can say ever been to Acapulco? Her: No, why? You: That’s where we’ll grab our drinks. Take some control of this situation, just a tad, don’t go overboard ordering for her lol. And it helps if you have actually been there and not just viewed it on google if she asks why here when you’re on a date. You can make up a random story or say something genuine