i'm probably not screening properly, but i feel like a lot of girls get turned off by the fact i invite them over for a first date. seems like getting that non compliance makes getting a date in public harder because she labels you as a fuckboy. am i wrong? what if i'm missing out on my next girlfriend by going for "the lay" so quick
I just made a post about this a week ago. People chimed in and basically said it's a numbers game. I changed my own operations to grabbing a drink near by (i live across the street from a bar). But it does depend on the age of the girl and her pictures on whether I'll invite her over vs grabbing a drink.
Well said. I too have lost a few girls due to inviting them straight over. They get turned off. For me, one drink at a nearby bar 1st. Then I walk em back to my place
