Hola my guys. I need some help on this one. First I need to give some context. (SKIP this if you want to get straight to the meat without the backstory) I’m a fairly good looking guy that’s grown up in a strict christan home. For most of my life I genuinely believed in saving sex for marriage, but in the past 3 years my belief system has changed so much and see the world differently now. Long story short, I don’t want to be a virgin anymore. Although, I have received advice from this forum and similar forums, my pickle has yet to be tickled. (for reasons I will mention later. My virgin self received a message from a girl on Snapchat. Here was our convo from the best of my memory. The convo starts by her replying to my snap story. Also, keep in mind she is like a 6-6.5 Her “ are you still?”( the Religious domination I and her were once a part of) Me “ I switched to mormonism awhile back” Her “ LMFAO, are you serious?” Me “yeah” Her “Fuck?” Me “Why am I up so late” Her “I’m asking, are you down to fuk?” Me “ How much are you willing to pay? $” Her “TF?!?! My gorilla gripped pussy should do” Me “Are you a virgin?” Her “ No, are you?” Me. “ Yeah” Her “ I would gladly help you out with that if you want. I really liked you back when we meet at (church conference)” Me “ Yeah, I was talking to someone then.” (my ex at the time) Her “ Yeah I knew, it’s cool” Convo went into the next day, and transitioned to photo and video snaps instead of text. I sent her a snap of me driving and rapping 50 cent. Her “ So we’re teasing now? Me. “ I’m cumming over” Her “Ouuu when?” I have left her on open and not replied yet. Should I take this opportunity or let it go? And if so what is the best way to go about it. Should I play the reverse game and be all hard to get and shit like that, or should I be direct and get down to business? All i’ve known is church my whole life, I was home schooled and never really had girls around me in my day to day life. It was only when I went church conferences I was able to meet chicks. I still live with my parents so my logistics are awful right now, but Im working on getting an apartment. The majority of my family is heavily involved in my church. To give perspective my grandfather is the pastor. My identity to an extent is wrapped in our church. Other people still presently view me as the church guy... This environment is very non conducive for my V card and I feel stuck in it.