It really depends on the expectations and the frames you set. Also remember, if you can't handle what she's giving you right now it will grow over time. Being with women should be a win-win, where the girl is experiencing emotions with a great guy and the guy is enjoying time with the girl. That being said, it looks like you're her thrapist here. You're not suppose to solves these problems for her, that's on her. If you don't want her to complicate your life move on.