First date went well but couldve escalated more sexual tension. She seemed interested through text even after the first date but trying to get the second one was a pain and I've been ghosted a few times. So I finally got this text but wondering if I should still get a underlying reason cause it's such a shift from the first date.
Just seems like you didn't escalate enough or push the right buttons for attraction, also she could have moved on and doesn't want to straight up say she's taken, I'd give it up tbf
I pushed it a little bit more and maybe I gave off vibes that I wanted to date. Hopefully I can get the second date. Will post if I really get stuck cause this girl is hella cute
To keep it frank this is bad. Too stand offish and will get the girl mad in a bad way (a "I'm not gonna waste my time on this guy" kinda way). Say this next:
"Jk we can date but my only rule is we cant be friends. Enemies at least" (Lead it to a more interesting non serious and playful direction. People got enough trauma in they lives to be dealing with you negging her rn lol)
