Just reply "no problem". She is clearly investing

Hey guys, would really appreciate your help with this. Managed to close this girl, we were supposed to meet up the next weekend. When I reengaged with the meme on Wednesday, she asked to change the date twice. I agreed, and she ended up flaking the day before. This is an 18 year old girl, so I thought maybe it was a comfort issue. I sent an audio message saying "If you're too nervous, I'd understand". She responded saying she wasn't, and we could reschedule. Had to double text her on Monday evening for the reschedule, and she responded this morning with the last texts. I feel like agreeing to wait two weeks would be losing frame, and I've already made myself too available for this chick. I was gonna go with "Look I'm busy too, but I'm sure we could find a few hours if we wanted to". I don't know if that's the right move here, since I haven't built up a lot of investment from her.

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RandomIndian Dude

Just reply "no problem". She is clearly investing. Just don't hit her up for a few days and then text her. Be considerate of her situation and don't push. Persistence, not neediness.

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Rohan Jain

Thanks for the advice man. I feel like I've been too compliant/giving into her frame, since I agreed to multiple reschedules already. I don't know if being considerate would make me seem low value, like I'm happy to be her backup or some shit.

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