I assume you did it because you felt the need to chat a bit more with her before she would be 100% open to meeting up. You had the right idea, just executed it poorly. You might've been able to just stay on the topic of wine and ask her what kind of wine she like and see what she says and you can kind of tease her about it and banter.. It might still be possible to revive, just give it a bit of time and seee if she responds. If not, update me