BTW In my voice memo I teased her if she was working 24/7 or had an evening free. She seemed interested but every time I try to move to a date she comes up with excuses. She isn’t low investment so this is confusing, it seems like at least she’s trying but it also seems like she’s just trying to be polite and not reject me outright? Idk bro, any help is appreciated, but if y’all say she’s not interested I’m not surprised.
Have you guys actually decided on an activity yet? If not, maybe start with that first so you can remind her how great it will be in comparison to her boring work schedule. Also, she's investing a lot less than what would be ideal. You could try getting some more from her before you push for her schedule again. A reliable response to vague "busyness" objections could be something like "even busy girls need to have fun every once in a while" or something to that effect.
Some really good stuff, really like those lines, will use them. thanks man. Yes we were going to go on a hot springs hike, but it’s just getting harder to confirm anything. I suppose getting more investment would’ve helped, I just didn’t want to over game when she was responding positively and I might have shot myself in the foot by escalating. Thanks again!