I’m getting the vibe she’s just after a conversation buddy. Rapport is good but she didn’t even add my insta after giving it to her which shows very low interest. Don’t really wanna jump through her hoop at the end. Gonna wait on it a night so that hopefully she feels the loss and just texts me. Otherwise I will re-engage on hinge and just answer her question. Please help, she’s very hot obliviously.
It seems like she's invested, just concerned about stranger danger. I think you should push for a facetime and say something like "my answers to those questions are pretty long and I'd rather we save the get-to-know-you questions for when we're face to face. How about we facetime and I'll tell you." I think she'll feel a lot more at ease about meeting up after that. If she's still being difficult about giving away her number then just give short answers to those questions and see if she's still investing in the conversation enough to decide whether this is still worth pursuing
I'm thinking of saying that more playfully.
Suraj is right and your text game is not bad. You missed a couple of opportunities to sexualize tho and that's definitely something you should look to work on. You can easily avoid being a girl's texting buddy and get her excited/invested in the date if you combine some vibing and sexualization. I would go with a variation of Suraj and your suggestion with a simple, "How about I tell you all those things and more over a ft, then hopefully we can get past this serial killer thing:)" Anyway, hope this helps and lmk how it goes.
