Hey I was wondering if someone could tell me why my last messages didn’t work. I tried sexualizing but it didn’t seem to land. What is it too aggressive too soon? I feel like I’ve seen more aggressive on Alex’s videos and it’s worked But maybe I’m missing something. Thanks
in my opinion, you had to test the waters a bit softer everything seemed good you were pushing forward not beating around the bush
all I could say is I would try and build more investment and try and soft closing not consecutively and if she doesn't give a solid answer call it out
about the last soft close I would have left without the dirty talk part good luck
Can you explain why the dirt talk wasn’t good? I’m working on sexualizing the convo when there are opportunities so some feedback would help. Thanks
You messed up by talking about the date (which itself was a good text) but then you double messaged with the stuff about dirty talk. That was too soon. You should have waited for her to express interest in the date.
it's not the words that you used perse it's more on the positioning and timing, I would have said it after she responded to your soft close
