Since starting to cold approach 3 weeks ago, I've been going out and meeting girls every day. Today, I think I'm at the point where it's starting to feel more natural, and I could start branching out and away from having the same old phrasing and awkwardness, and lean more into being confident. Before today, I'd made a connection (enough to have their phone numbers) with about 5 girls total. Today, I approached 11 total women and got 5 rejections, 1 "neutral" interaction (which I count anyone who reacts positively or negatively, but who I don't ask to go on a date nor get the number of nor get rejected by), and 5 more numbers, which feels incredible to me as someone who considered himself awkward around girls. September 7th, I can feel good about my efforts for today. Leveling myself up bit by bit. *edit: still awkward with girls, turns out. Old habits die hard. Not stopping me from trying tho

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My crash course in learning how to text well started yesterday, now it's time to get the show on the road!

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That's awesome man, congrats! How are you doing your approaches? Day or night? Solo?

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I'm doing all my approaches during the day. I live on a college campus (with a roommate), which has some complications to it but really puts me in a position to improve even with my anxiety.
I do them all solo, haven't yet found anyone who I vibe with about meeting girls (all the other guys I've met who were interested were just aiming for sex, no connection nor empathy). Still looking, but hard to say I approach ladies during the day and invite people to join me in the endeavor. Journaling my approaches each day helps though.

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