Yh I should have closed earlier maybe by saying I’

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Excuse the geeking out on paranormal shit 😂 ain’t too often you find a super attractive girl who’s into spiritual stuff like this and it was just there as an opener...but yh, as you can see she was super invested in the conversation and then no response. I waited a day before clarifying the “island girl” question since not all people get that but no reply yet. Any ideas on how to navigate this one? She may just be caught up with life and work and it’s too soon to try and message again obviously, but I want a solid plan so I don’t fumble this due to poor text game like I have done a few times recently. A follow up I thought of was “Didn’t realise the ghost hunter could become a ghost as well” ? Or is that too confrontational ?

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Michi J

Yh I should have closed earlier maybe by saying I’ll reveal more stories on our date send me your number etc. But her last message seemed proper engaged still, and tbh what I sent was basically the whole chat so it was still early. I still haven’t got a response to my last “if your shy” takeway on Saturday but she’s in my list still and hasnt unmatched so maybe I’ll drop one more in a day or two.

Hey Trouble

Regardless, I think less chit chat/overly worded messages and just get to the point, move the conversation towards a date, add some flirt/sexual tension.

Right off the bat, your initial response "when I see you" should be "on our date"

When she replied if you've been ghost hunting, instead of taking something so literal/wordy, just say "no, but I would enjoy a cute girl like you as my tour guide" or "yes, I have been, I'm willing to be your handsome ghost tour guide"

(i think you get my point)

Michi J

Yeah for sure, that’s the usual protocol but she started geeking out and asking me them questions so I just went with the flow.

It’s been 3 days now so I’m gonna send a final takeaway before leaving it.

Super invested to no response. Need a good plan to salvage.