Don't want to mess this up

Lately I have been trying a few things and it's not working out. Either I lose the frame battle or I write something in the spur of moment and I mess up. So before any of that, i want to try to ask for help and see how this is going to turn out with someone else's help. With every screenshot I'll post what I was thinking of replying and why. With this one, I wanted to put her in the adventurous/spontaneous frame, like Are you always this spontaneouse Yes/Always Oh, I thought you were the nice church going girl (basically to make her qualify/put her in the box so she qualifies) She's 20 all her pics are wild and partying and concerts.