I have a date with this girl set up for Thursday. The texting has been fairly good, I’ve had her engaged an laughing a lot but she has a tendency to stop responding and isn’t engaging after so I am starting to get flaky vibes. I don’t think I’ll engage her today but tomorrow, I know it’s best to soft confirm. I’m thinking “picked out a cute outfit for tomorrow?” but I’d like suggestions too. What’s the best way to approach this?
I would soft confirm the day before. From what I see I get flake vibes too. I would literally write a small paragraph about something funny from my day then "still good for tomorrow night? I'm looking forward to meet you!"
IOW I think you want to ramp up the comfort and investment, else this is on the train tracks to flake city. Id be interested to see if Jan, Chosen One, Alex etc disagree with me on that.
The date is on Thursday, do you think today is still the best day? Just to clarify
Reread my comment I edited it