How should I have responded to this?
"Hey, I wanted to be honest with you. I felt a bit uncomfortable with the physical touch on our first date. it was a bit more than I was okay with, especially so early on. I wish you the best but i just was not comfortable moving that fast. its nothing you did wrong and I should’ve vocalized that to you but I didn’t know how." For context, literally all I did was hold her thigh in the car and kiss her with her permission
