Yeah it's easy to see it like that. In my defense

Boundary setting advice

So...Been texting this girl for about 2 weeks, she's much younger (24) and lives about 100 miles away. She was super enthusiastic at first, but there was a very gradual fade. We were going for something late week to meet up, and I was going to drive down, which is a bigger investment in time, of course, than something local. Long story short, even though we did not definitively have a date set up, she kinda disappeared for a day or so when we were getting close to making the date happen. Texts attached, my initial thought is to do some boundary setting in a non-butt hurt way but I'm having trouble finding the vid that outlined this. Or am I just over-reacting because she's so very hot? How would y'all handle this?

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David A

Yeah it's easy to see it like that. In my defense I did say previously that I was only available Tuesday and Friday, so I wanted to try to hold that line (which , of course, I didn't do!). Also, you're used to pulling 24 year-olds that look amazing in a sundress, but that's a big deal for me (I'm 50!). But thanks for the feedback. Valuable perspective.

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avilench .

i gotchu man, sometimes it is important to hold the frame, but not in the situation like this just saying for the future

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