Not a shit test and not a time waster man. She had

Context : we’ve been going back and forth for a while been trying to soft close, works but then whenever i try to hard close, she changes subject she asks me if i’ve any kinks, i respond with alex’s tying up line she wants to no more, asks what my limitations are then, the exchanges on the screenshot My last response isn’t the best (maybe less butthurt i.e. “how is talking about kinks over text than in person less shy haha”) but I’m sure you guys understand my point. How is wanting to meet “shy” ? Is this a shit test ? Or just a time waster ? Scratching my head out here

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Patrick R

Not a shit test and not a time waster man. She had a concern that you wouldn't adress (your limitations). Seems like she was dtf but wanted to know what she was walking into. You should have just said your limitations.

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Alejandro X

Yeah I re-read her messages and get that now. That’s on me

Still, I did entertain her dirty talk early on (she asked me what my kinks were, i answered with alex’s visual tying up line, said bdsm, etc). But when she kept asking, I thought about Alex’s advice to avoid endless talk and I thought this was precisely that situation

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How am i “shy” ? Smh